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Old 10-30-2005, 10:49 PM   #71
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Nice shot, T.V.S.

I'm grateful for ethnic women. They are always the hottest. Asian, black, Latina, whatever. I'm Caucasian, and you can keep those Caucasian women for the most part.

If it weren't for immigration, America would be a very boring place.

And George W. Bush is a stupid frat boy who has no business running anything, let alone a country.
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Old 10-30-2005, 11:23 PM   #72
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Guys....

this thread has turned into a fuckfest.

It is my fault and I am contemplating resigning from the board because of it.

I should have removed his thread from the start.

One of my biggest rules is not to permit political discussions at a photography specific board.

We are above all this crap, or so I thought.

I made a stupid remark ( second post) in this thread and I am guilty.
To tell you the gods honest truth, I thought nothing of Vitahappys post at the time because all this racial crap means nothing to me.

I have been living the " other side of the tracks " for the last 3 years can personally relate to the struggles " the other side" lives thru on a day to day basis.

I even have a pureto rican girlfriend who was and still is my visiting nurse who i happened to fall in love with..lol ( i am so white, i glow in the dark)

I go to HER neighborhood and I am the gringo, the outsider and i know personally whats its like to be the person that does not fit into a demographic group.

I always set out to have this board be a global community of people that share a common love of this hobby and hoped that stuff like this would never need to be addressed or even discussed.

I hate discussing politics and racial stuff because i truly feel it should not be a factor in anything.

we are all different, have different ethnic backgrounds and it dont mean shit.

some of us are really upset and rightfully so...enuff for one of us to do something which i consider over reaction.

OK..perhaps this thread was ok because it seems some stuff was said that needed to be worked out and i see that some of the stuff has been worked out between the parties involved.


Thats what Im talking about...

WE CAN work it out because we are a group, a community of people with a common link, a bond between us.

I dont care if you are white, asian, black, green with yellow polka dots....

it means nothing.....

now dickheads is another story..lol


This thread and this situation is very painful to me as it seems i am a perpertrator also, but like i said, i dont even think along those lines and had i done so, perhaps i might have deleted this from the get go,
but i didnt as like i said,,i thought nothing of it.

I really dont know how to handle this anymore.

some of the stuff said here was a little incredulous and some of it was taken out of context and led to stuff being said, that allthough it was said, maybe shouldnt have been, but now that it was, maybe its a good thing.

i dunno...


welcome to my world...lol

I consider this thread a barfight that once it was done and said, everyone here left the bar as friends.


I'm sorry and i feel very strongly about this and want us all to be able to remain friends and work out any and all differences, but, i really dont want to do it here...lol

Im sorry i never went back into this thread, but as an admin, i rarely go back into threads except for the first coupla replies because my duties lie elsewhere and am really busy and apologize for being that busy not to pay more attention to ALL our members needs and thoughts.

but..

i never thought i HAD to..lol

wtf has this to do with taking pictures anyways?


Its nice to be part of a community where thoughts can be expressed without thinking about them for days, but then again it is not...

( welcome to my world v.2...lol)

I am at a loss and really dont know what and how to act anymore.


All I can say is to a certain party here is dont over react, remian friends, work out your percieved differences privately or here if you wish,

but by all means...

work it out..

it makes no sense if we cant work stuff out amongst a small group of friends that this planet will ever change.


Its all opinions anyways...

i give a flying fuck who or what did what and when ( speaking of Bush...lol) here at this board.

I do care if you got pictures of him tho"..those i want to see.


Some times a line has to be drawn in the sand andless you guys REALLY want to discuss politics and opinions and racial stuff, by all means do, but work it out amongst ourselves. so that we dont go to bed together mad at each other.

WE ARE ALL FRIENDS HERE....

LETS KEEP IT THAT WAY.





( sorry for the mindless rant, but this shit hit me hard)( and if i had to think out each and every word to make it logical or politically correct, it would never get posted...lol)
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yea, i didnt think it'd turn into such a big thing either. after reading all that, it was wrong of me to not like them just cuz they just speak spanish all the time. they're all cool peoples in their own way. in fact, one spanish guy i work with does try to learn some things here and there. when i first started working there, I wasnt so good bout working in the kitchen but he taught me even in spanish.
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I'm definitely your friend, CC, and I appreciate your work here. I agree that politics should probably stay out of a photography board, but somehow it always manages to rear its ugly head. Maybe having a generic "Talk" section encourages it.
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[QUOTE=Deathtrot]Nice shot, T.V.S.

I'm grateful for ethnic women. They are always the hottest. Asian, black, Latina, whatever. I'm Caucasian, and you can keep those Caucasian women for the most part.

soory..but NO COMPRENDE
i told you i'm not Caucasian ...and i got nothin' but love 4 everybody...
especially da ladies...all colors n flavaz.



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Old 10-31-2005, 06:25 PM   #76
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This thread is fuckin stupid. I can't make it off page two, although the moderator inside me tells me I should try. The common sense side of me is currently kicking the shit out of the moderator side, I'll report back and let you know who won.
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soory..but NO COMPRENDE
i told you i'm not Caucasian ...and i got nothin' but love 4 everybody...
especially da ladies...all colors n flavaz.



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I'm through with this thread. Somebody...please...delete it.
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Damm figure head's got us in a fine mess in Iraq...I guess congress got duped this time..
I'm with ya there, Gramps. We have no business being over there.

And those Iraqis have some nerve trying to defend their land from foreign invasion.
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I couldn't get past page 2 cause I started to feel stressed about the opposition and extreme differences in opinion, and in some cases hatred.

I grew up in a place where many different cultures and races thrive. It's in the U.S. and if anything, whites are looked at as outsiders there. I've been called or referred to as chino before and honestly it has bothered me because some of those people were more foreign to this land than me. My family has been here for 4 generations. Still some people probably assume I know karate just cause I'm asian, haha.

Some people choose to describe others using physical descriptors like "he's that black dude", or "you know, the fat guy", but I try not to do that.

My feeling is we are all people and we have a choice whether to acclimate to our surroundings or not. Some groups of people feel more comfortable amongst themselves, speaking their native language. Most foreigners I know can speak several languages. My wife is from Iran and my last gf was from Afghanistan. I had a girlfriend from Turkey and one from Mexico. I love all cultures and like to learn about all of them.

I have been subjected to stereotypes and shit in my life so I know how it feels to feel out of place and lost. I try to judge people on how hard they work and how they treat others. At that point it doesn't matter what race or religion you are. You can be a dick in any race or social status.

But Vita, yes it does suck to have someone talk about you in their own language or any language for that matter. That does piss me off too.

This country is only as great as the people in it. To me that means respect, tolerance, acceptance, compassion and understanding.

Let's segregate ourselves from the murderers, rapists and thieves among us. Not from those with differences in culture, opinion and lifestyle.

...imho
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